As parents, we are in a constant cycle of teaching and reinforcing values. While we can guide our children, ultimately, they are in control of their own behavior. Sometimes, they will make mistakes that require correction, but our response to those missteps is the key to meaningful change. Being firm and consistent while showing understanding requires patience, but ignoring, complaining, or getting angry simply won’t solve anything.
I invite you to reflect on your own behavior as a parent, because it has a tremendous impact on your child’s actions and the overall quality of your relationship.
Parents who are disciplined in their own behavior can’t guarantee their children will always do the right thing. But they do create an environment where a child can learn from their mistakes without confusion, and in a way that is emotionally healthy.
Every moment in a child’s life matters, and every conflict is an opportunity for parents to choose a response that leads to the best possible outcome.
Pepa.