You’ve undoubtedly searched for your child’s new school with great care. Even so, it’s natural to have doubts about whether you made the right choice and to worry about how quickly they will adapt. After the novelty of the first few days wears off, your child might not come home as happy as you expected.
Parents often put too much effort into assuring children how much fun school will be and how great a time they will have with new friends. But the truth is, the “fun” might take a while to arrive. Many children need time to feel comfortable. To avoid creating disappointment, it’s best not to dwell on the topic too much when you pick them up. Instead, let them disconnect from school in the afternoons and simply enjoy family time at home.
Your Attitude is Key
The most important thing you can do is transmit a sense of security and leave them in class each morning with a cheerful and firm attitude. Children are very sensitive and can easily pick up on their parents’ worries. You should hand them over to the teachers with confidence, trusting that they are professionals who know how to help.
In my experience, as soon as parents leave, children quickly “change their mindset” and adapt. Most kids adjust well to their new schools, even if it’s not always as fast as parents would like.
Trust the process and your child!
— Pepa